Oh yeah! I was thinking of Strong Poison re: books that end with the woman choosing not-marriage, though it's sort of undone by Gaudy Night (by no means to my chagrin).
Feel like there are a couple Barbara Pym books that also fit this mould, though perhaps that goes without saying [speaking to "femcel canon" phrase coiner... my friend independently came up with "spinster lit"].
Have you read (... why do I ask; she hates answering this) A Suitable Boy? I remember being shocked & scandalized by the ending, i.e. Lata's choice of a husband, as a teen (it seemed like the death of hope), but when I re-read it in my mid-20s I thought the protagonist had just been wiser about life than I had been at 17.
|"They are in their 30s"
oh yeah i definitely get it
basically dead
today a student was shocked that they had AP classes "back in [my] day"
Oh yeah! I was thinking of Strong Poison re: books that end with the woman choosing not-marriage, though it's sort of undone by Gaudy Night (by no means to my chagrin).
Feel like there are a couple Barbara Pym books that also fit this mould, though perhaps that goes without saying [speaking to "femcel canon" phrase coiner... my friend independently came up with "spinster lit"].
Have you read (... why do I ask; she hates answering this) A Suitable Boy? I remember being shocked & scandalized by the ending, i.e. Lata's choice of a husband, as a teen (it seemed like the death of hope), but when I re-read it in my mid-20s I thought the protagonist had just been wiser about life than I had been at 17.
I think The Sweet Dove Died kind of fits.… and no, I haven’t, though I actually think I have a copy sitting around here, hm.…